Americans use the Internet to abandon children adopted from overseas

Sounds like a pedophiles dream come true.

Reuters Investigates – by Megan Twohey

Part 1: When a Liberian girl proves too much for her parents, they advertise her online and give her to a couple they’ve never met. Days later, she goes missing.

KIEL, Wisconsin – Todd and Melissa Puchalla struggled for more than two years to raise Quita, the troubled teenager they’d adopted from Liberia. When they decided to give her up, they found new parents to take her in less than two days – by posting an ad on the Internet.   

Nicole and Calvin Eason, an Illinois couple in their 30s, saw the ad and a picture of the smiling 16-year-old. They were eager to take Quita, even though the ad warned that she had been diagnosed with severe health and behavioral problems. In emails, Nicole Eason assured Melissa Puchalla that she could handle the girl.

“People that are around me think I am awesome with kids,” Eason wrote.

A few weeks later, on Oct. 4, 2008, the Puchallas drove six hours from their Wisconsin home to Westville, Illinois. The handoff took place at the Country Aire Mobile Home Park, where the Easons lived in a trailer.

No attorneys or child welfare officials came with them. The Puchallas simply signed a notarized statement declaring these virtual strangers to be Quita’s guardians. The visit lasted just a few hours. It was the first and the last time the couples would meet.

To Melissa Puchalla, the Easons “seemed wonderful.” Had she vetted them more closely, she might have discovered what Reuters would learn:

• Child welfare authorities had taken away both of Nicole Eason’s biological children years earlier. After a sheriff’s deputy helped remove the Easons’ second child, a newborn baby boy, the deputy wrote in his report that the “parents have severe psychiatric problems as well with violent tendencies.”

• The Easons each had been accused by children they were babysitting of sexual abuse, police reports show. They say they did nothing wrong, and neither was charged.

• The only official document attesting to their parenting skills – one purportedly drafted by a social worker who had inspected the Easons’ home – was fake, created by the Easons themselves.

On Quita’s first night with the Easons, her new guardians told her to join them in their bed, Quita says today. Nicole slept naked, she says.

Within a few days, the Easons stopped responding to Melissa Puchalla’s attempts to check on Quita, Puchalla says. When she called the school that Quita was supposed to attend, an administrator told Puchalla that the teenager had never shown up.

GIRL AVAILABLE: Quita Puchalla’s adoptive parents used this photo to advertise her online. REUTERS/Handout

Quita wasn’t at the trailer park, either. The Easons had packed up their purple Chevy truck and driven off with her, leaving behind a pile of trash, a pair of blue mattresses and two puppies chained in their yard, authorities later found.

The Puchallas had rescued Quita from an orphanage in Liberia, brought her to America and then signed her over to a couple they barely knew. Days later, they had no idea what had become of her.

When she arrived in the United States, Quita says, she “was happy … coming to a nicer place, a safer place. It didn’t turn out that way,” she says today. “It turned into a nightmare.”

The teenager had been tossed into America’s underground market for adopted children, a loose Internet network where desperate parents seek new homes for kids they regret adopting. Like Quita, now 21, these children are often the casualties of international adoptions gone sour.

Through Yahoo and Facebook groups, parents and others advertise the unwanted children and then pass them to strangers with little or no government scrutiny, sometimes illegally, a Reuters investigation has found. It is a largely lawless marketplace. Often, the children are treated as chattel, and the needs of parents are put ahead of the welfare of the orphans they brought to America.

The practice is called “private re-homing,” a term typically used by owners seeking new homes for their pets. Based on solicitations posted on one of eight similar online bulletin boards, the parallels are striking.

“Born in October of 2000 – this handsome boy, ‘Rick’ was placed from India a year ago and is obedient and eager to please,” one ad for a child read.

A woman who said she is from Nebraska offered an 11-year-old boy she had adopted from Guatemala. “I am totally ashamed to say it but we do truly hate this boy!” she wrote in a July 2012 post.

Another parent advertised a child days after bringing her to America. “We adopted an 8-year-old girl from China… Unfortunately, We are now struggling having been home for 5 days.” The parent asked that others share the ad “with anyone you think may be interested.”

Reuters analyzed 5,029 posts from a five-year period on one Internet message board, a Yahoo group. On average, a child was advertised for re-homing there once a week. Most of the children ranged in age from 6 to 14 and had been adopted from abroad – from countries such as Russia and China, Ethiopia and Ukraine. The youngest was 10 months old.

After learning what Reuters found, Yahoo acted swiftly. Within hours, it began shutting down Adopting-from-Disruption, the six-year-old bulletin board. A spokeswoman said the activity in the group violated the company’s terms-of-service agreement. The company subsequently took down five other groups that Reuters brought to its attention.

A similar forum on Facebook, Way Stations of Love, remains active. A Facebook spokeswoman says the page shows “that the Internet is a reflection of society, and people are using it for all kinds of communications and to tackle all sorts of problems, including very complicated issues such as this one.”

The Reuters investigation found that some children who were adopted and later re-homed have endured severe abuse. Speaking publicly about her experience for the first time, one girl adopted from China and later sent to a second home said she was made to dig her own grave. Another re-homed child, a Russian girl, recounted how a boy in one house urinated on her after the two had sex; she was 13 at the time and was re-homed three times in six months.

“This is a group of children who are not being raised by biological parents, who have been relocated from a foreign country” and who sometimes don’t even speak English, says Michael Seto, an expert on the sexual abuse of children at the Royal Ottawa Health Care Group in Canada. “You’re talking about a population that appears to be especially vulnerable to exploitation.”

Giving away a child in America can be surprisingly easy. Legal adoptions must be handled through the courts, and prospective parents must be vetted. But there are ways around such oversight. Children can be sent to new families quickly through a basic “power of attorney” document – a notarized statement declaring the child to be in the care of another adult.

In many cases, this flexibility is good for the child. It allows parents experiencing hard times to send their kids to stay with a trusted relative, for instance. But with the rise of the Internet, parents are increasingly able to find complete strangers willing to take in unwanted children. By obtaining a power of attorney, the new guardians are able to enroll a child in school or secure government benefits – actions that can effectively mask changes of custody that take place illegally outside the purview of child welfare authorities.

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Reuters gathered five years of messages posted on a Yahoo bulletin board, Adopting-from-Disruption. This database consists of posts where parents or middlemen advertise an unwanted child. Each figure represents an offer of a child. Click to explore.

Subject: Contemplating Disruption

A little over 24 months ago, we adopted an African-American girl, [initials redacted], from the foster system. She is a twin. Initially, we were trying to adopt both children, but the twin opted to return to foster care because she cannot function in a family. Since leaving our home, she’s been in five placements.

I’m not sure where to begin because on the surface, people this will think I’m cruel and crazy. Sometimes, I feel like I’m mean-spirited for feeling about my daughter as I do because I’ve tried hard to change my feelings. I’m not bonded to this child, nor is she bonded to me. She’s basically a good kid, but struggles with the issues from her past as most former foster children do. It’s not that she doesn’t function well day-to-day, or that she even presents harsh discipline issues. For the most part, she does well. She receives decent grades in school, participates in extra-curricular activities. She has improved her behavior significantly and in her peer relationships at school, cheerleading, etc.

It’s here in the home she continues to treat people poorly. We have five other children; [initial redacted], age 16, [initial redacted], 10, [initial redacted], age 9, [initial redacted], 5, and [initial redacted], 3. She triangulates relationships with my other children, as well as my husband and myself. An example, she encouraged and helps my younger son, [initial redacted], to tease, hurt, and harass another daughter, [initial redacted]. Prior to [initials redacted] coming into our home, these two children were extremely close and kind to one another. Very seldom did my kids have sibling fights or tantrums. [initials redacted] is extremely jealous of the other kids receiving any sort of attention and frequently goes out of her way to get the others in trouble. In the past, she has created scenarios in which to get them into trouble. Another example, she was taking candy and other goodies from the kitchen/pantry. After eating, she was placing the wrappers under other children’s beds, then reporting them for stealing. This isn’t the only instance we’ve had of this type. [initial redacted] was taking change from my husband’s coin stash and going to the local convenience stores on the way to school and buying candy. She was threatening [initial redacted] with physical violence if she told what was happening. When we learned of this, we confronted [initials redacted] on this. She was very billergerant and unresponsive and blew up at me. This was usually the response we received before starting counseling. This has improved quite a bit, but the obvious fact she doesn’t want to be a part of our family has not.

[initials redacted] has continually stated it was a mistake to be adopted by my husband and I. She comments, under her breath and directly, that she didn’t want to be adopted and was going to get out of it, a week before it was finalized. But, the judge signed off on the adoption so it was too late. Indeed, when the news came from her social worker the adoption was final, she cried violently and was depressed for about six weeks. [initials redacted] has told me in calm, thoughtful conversations our family was not a good match for her and she hates living with us. This is despite my continued and above-and-beyond efforts to try to work with her and make this work for everyone. It’s come out in counseling my other children have felt neglected, angry, and abandoned since [initials redacted] joined our family. They feel I have catered to her because of her past and her issues. As my oldest daughter, [initial redacted], and [initial redacted] have put it, It’s all about [initials redacted]. Even when it’s not about [initials redacted], she will MAKE it about her by acting up and turning attention to herself with negative behaviors. Lately, the counselor has me working on a new approach which involves me purposely ignoring [initials redacted] when she behaves this way. To some degree, this works, but it hasn’t made [initials redacted] act or feel anymore apart of this family.

[initials redacted] continually disrespects me unless she has all the attention. Recently, when I was attempting to discuss her bullying of [initial redacted], she merely rolled her eyes at me, put up her hand, and told me I wasn’t her mother. It turned into a debacle because [initial redacted], whose really had enough, told [initials redacted] she was tired of her behavior and disrespect me. [initials redacted] and [initial redacted] got into a huge row, screaming at each other. [initials redacted] puffed up her chest and threatened [initial redacted] with violence, calling her some profane names, saying she hated all of us and wishes her real mother would come get her. It almost came to blows, but I diffused it. When things calmed down, [initials redacted] disclosed she is miserable with our family and doesn’t think of me as being her mother. She wants to return to the foster system, and thinks this is as simple as my dropping her off at the nearest Department of Social Services. The reason she said she stayed with us was because she wanted to be in cheerleading and we made that happen for her. (When she is at cheer competitions, she treats us worse; acting like she doesn’t know us. She’s told us she is embarrassed to admit we are her family. She’s even gone as far as asking if her coach would adopt her.)

She has said she is too good for us doesn’t want to be a part of this family. I realize some of this is tween attitude talking, but lately, she tried to start calling me by my first name. I quickly put a halt to it, telling her she can call me mom or Mrs. ——. I don’t allow children in my home to call me by my name, period.

I don’t recognize my family anymore since [initials redacted] joined it. [initial redacted] started cutting and once expressed suicidal thoughts to a friend, but stopped once I put her in counseling. My son, [initial redacted], has gone from a happy-go-lucky boy to a sullen, miserable kid with a bad attitude. [initial redacted] is deathly afraid of [initials redacted] and refuses to walk home from school with her. Our family rule is all the kids must stay together, but [initial redacted] and [initial redacted] will NOT walk with [initials redacted]. My other son, [initials redacted], is acting out in ways I’ve never seen, hitting and kicking people, using profanity, calling names. He was a gentle boy before [initials redacted] came into our home. [initials redacted] throws a lot of tantrums. My life has changed so much, I cannot even fathom I was once a happy person. I cannot leave the house without fear [initials redacted] will do something and [initial redacted] will have to call the police or an ambulance in response.

I miss life before [initials redacted] and I am very sorry I brought this child into my family. I feel terrible for her, because I’m obviously not providing what she needs to be successful. I’m not sure what that is, or how to make her feel like she’s a member of the family. I’m mad at the system for processing a child into adoption who so obviously didn’t want to be adopted. It wasn’t fair to her, or to us. I can’t turn back the clock. My family is under constant strain. My other children all HATE coming home and look for any excuse not to be here because of [initials redacted]. I no longer have a home. It’s just a place where people live under the same roof. The tension is horrible. [initial redacted] now has headaches and anxiety attacks.

I also feel like I am whining because I created this situation by bringing [initials redacted] into my family. I’ve held these feelings in for so long, I feel like I’m having a breakdown. I want to help her, but whatever I’m offering isn’t working. She doesn’t want to be here. I know children aren’t puppies. I know this is a lifelong commitment, but I hate, hate, hate what’s happening to my family. I don’t feel any bond for this child, and I’m trying to hard to love her. It’s just I realized I do not. I feel horribly guilty for it and even more guilty for working so hard to cover my true feelings. [initials redacted] deserves more and better and so do my other children.

There is one potential safeguard: an agreement among the 50 U.S. states, the District of Columbia and the U.S. Virgin Islands called the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children, or ICPC. The agreement requires that if a child is to be transferred outside of the family to a new home in a different state, parents notify authorities in both states. That way, prospective parents can be vetted.

The compact has been adopted by every state and is codified in various statutes that give it the force of law. Even so, these laws are seldom enforced, in part because the compact remains largely unknown to law enforcement authorities. Each state is also left to decide how to punish those who give or take children in violations of the compact’s provisions. Some states attach criminal sanctions – generally, misdemeanors. Other states aren’t explicit about how violations should be handled.

A child might be removed from the new home if an illegal re-homing is discovered. But seldom is either set of parents punished. No state, federal or international laws even acknowledge the existence of re-homing.

International adoptees are especially susceptible to being re-homed. At least 70 percent of the children offered on the Yahoo bulletin board, Adopting-from-Disruption, were advertised as foreign-born.

Americans have adopted about 243,000 children from other countries since the late 1990s. But unlike parents who take in American-born children through the U.S. foster-care system, many adults adopting from overseas receive little or no training. It isn’t unusual for the children they bring home to have undisclosed physical, emotional or behavioral problems.

No authority tracks what happens after a child is brought to America, so no one knows how often international adoptions fail. The U.S. government estimates that domestic adoptions fail at a rate ranging from “about 10 to 25 percent.” If international adoptions fail with about the same frequency, then more than 24,000 foreign adoptees are no longer with the parents who brought them to the United States. Some experts say the percentage could be higher given the lack of support for those parents.

A U.S. federal law, passed in 2000, requires states to document cases in which they take custody of children from failed international adoptions. The State Department then collects that information. In addition, adoption agencies are supposed to report to the department certain types of failed international adoptions that come to their attention.

But many states say they are unable to keep track of the cases because their computer systems are antiquated. And the State Department won’t disclose the number of failed international adoptions that are reported by adoption agencies.

“Because the State Department is not the authoritative source of information regarding dissolutions and is not always notified when adoptions are dissolved, we do not provide statistics,” a State Department official said.

The failure to keep track of what happens after children are brought to America troubles some foreign governments. So do instances of neglect or abuse that become known. Often cited is the case of the Tennessee woman who returned a 7-year-old boy she adopted from a Russian orphanage. The woman had cared for him only six months when she put the boy on a flight to Moscow in April 2010. He was accompanied by a typed letter that read in part, “I no longer wish to parent this child.”

Late last year, Russia banned adoptions by Americans amid a broader diplomatic dispute. Other nations, including Guatemala and China, have also made the process more difficult. As a result, the number of foreign-born children adopted into the United States has declined from a peak of almost 23,000 in 2004 to fewer than 10,000 a year today.

The recent obstacles to bringing new kids to America could make the Internet child exchange even more appealing. A participant in one online bulletin board characterized the re-homing groups as “the ‘latest country’ to adopt from.”

Other participants wrote about openly defying government efforts, foreign and domestic, to keep track of children from failed adoptions (also sometimes called “disrupted” adoptions).

“We adopted two children from Russia. We have disrupted our daughter. What business of the Russian government?” one parent wrote in July 2012. “We never let anyone know about the disruption.” (Russia is among the nations that seek periodic updates on children adopted from there.)

Parents who offer their children on the Internet say they have limited options. Residential treatment centers can be expensive, and some parents say social services won’t help them; if they do contact authorities, they fear being investigated for abuse or neglect.

The problems – and the isolation parents feel – can prove overwhelming. On the bulletin boards, parents talk of children becoming abusive and violent, terrorizing them and other kids in the household.

“People get in over their heads,” says Tim Stowell, an adoptive parent who created the Facebook group last year. “The main thing is to offer hope for families that have no hope… I also knew there were people looking to adopt kids from those situations, so I wanted to get those people together, kind of like a clearinghouse.”

Not until January 2011 did any official responsible for overseeing the U.S. child-protection compact call attention to the dangers of the online network. In a nationwide alert to state child welfare authorities, an administrator for the ICPCwarned that adoptive parents were sending children to live with people they met on the Internet. The practice, the official wrote, is “placing children in grave danger.”

NEW PARENTS: On the day her adoptive parents dropped her at the Eason trailer in Illinois, they snapped this picture inside the couple’s kitchen. From left to right, Calvin Eason, Quita Puchalla and Nicole Eason. REUTERS/Handout

The official who sent the memo, Stephen Pennypacker, says he issued the warning after a child welfare worker in one state noticed cases of kids being sent to new parents without the approval of authorities.

In the alert, Pennypacker asked that such cases be documented and reported to the national non-profit organization that oversees the ICPC. He says he also told child protection officials in each state to alert their attorneys general, local police and social workers “so that people could be on the lookout.”

Despite the urgency of the request, Pennypacker says there has been no response.

As part of its investigation, Reuters reviewed thousands of pages of records – many of them confidential – from court cases, police reports and child welfare agencies. Reporters examined ads for children and emails between parents, and also identified eight Internet groups in which members discussed, facilitated or engaged in re-homing. Reporters then analyzed thousands of posts from the group that Yahoo subsequently shut down, Adopting-from-Disruption.

Some participants in that group both offered and sought children for re-homing, sometimes simultaneously. Others looked to offload more than one child at a time. Some sought new parents for children who already had been re-homed. A 10-year-old boy from the Philippines and a 13-year-old boy from Brazil each were advertised three times. So was a girl from Haiti. She was offered for re-homing when she was 14, 15 and 16 years old.

In an interview earlier this year, Nicole Eason – the woman who disappeared with Quita – referred to private re-homing as “non-legalized adoption.”

“The meaning of non-legalized is, ‘Hey, can I have your baby?'” Eason said.

She discussed why she was so motivated to be a mother. “It makes me feel important,” she said.

And she described her parenting style this way: “Dude, just be a little mean, OK? … I’ll threaten to throw a knife at your ass, I will. I’ll chase you with a hose.

‘RED LIGHT’: Melissa Puchalla says she sobbed after leaving Quita with the Easons, the couple she met on the Internet. “Maybe a red light should’ve went off – too good to be true,” she says now. REUTERS/Sara Stathas

“I won’t leave burns on you. I won’t leave marks on you. I’m not going to send you with bruises to school,” she said. “Make sure you got three meals a day, make sure you have a place to live, OK? If you need medication for your psychological problems, I’ve got you there. You need therapy? You need a hug? You need a kiss? Somebody to tickle with you? I got you. OK? But this world is not meant to be perfect. And I just don’t understand why people think it is.”

The story of the Easons and the girls and boys they have taken through re-homing illustrates the many ways in which the U.S. government fails to protect children of adoptions gone awry. It shows how virtually anyone determined to get a child can do so with ease, and how children brought to America can be abruptly discarded and recycled.


The night before leaving Quita with the Easons, Melissa Puchalla showed her daughter a picture of the couple. Like Quita, Calvin Eason is black. Nicole is white, and Puchalla thought Quita might thrive in a mixed-race household.

The Puchallas also say they were giving up the teenager to protect their other children. Quita was unpredictable and violent, Melissa says, and her siblings had grown frightened of her. “There was no other option,” Melissa says today.

Puchalla assured her daughter that the Easons were “very good people,” Quita remembers. “But I was like judging in my mind: ‘How do you know?'” Quita says today. She says she spent the night crying.

The Easons were elated. They were about to get a child, for free.

Part of the allure of re-homing is that the process is far cheaper than formal adoptions. Adopting from a foreign country can cost tens of thousands of dollars. Taking custody through re-homing often costs nothing. In fact, taking a child may enable the new family to claim a tax deduction and draw government benefits. The Easons view re-homing as a way around a prying government, and a way to take a child inexpensively.

“If you don’t want to pay $35,000 for a kid,” Nicole Eason says today, “you take your chances.”

For Quita, the drive to the Eason place was a blur. But she remembers vividly when her adoptive father, Todd Puchalla, stopped in front of a mobile home with an overgrown lawn. Some of the trailers were well-maintained. This one, Quita thought, looked like a junkyard.

From the picture her mother had shown her, Quita recognized the Easons immediately. Both were large, well over 200 pounds, and Calvin was tall – about 6-foot-2. But what first caught the Puchallas’ attention was the tube coming out of Calvin’s neck a few inches beneath his chin. It was from a tracheostomy, a surgical procedure to alleviate a sleep disorder.

“We were a little standoffish about him because he has a trach,” Melissa Puchalla recalls. “But they were warm, and they were caring. They seemed kind.”

Today, Melissa Puchalla says, “Maybe a red light should’ve went off – too good to be true. But at that point, I was walking in such a fog.”

Not only were the Easons willing to take Quita, but they would gladly do so through the simple device of a power of attorney document, about 400 words long. The paper is signed by the old parents and the new guardians, and witnessed by a notary. As happened in Quita’s case, no lawyers or government authorities are involved. The document is filed nowhere; it functions, in essence, as a receipt. Such agreements fail to satisfy the ICPC when custody of the child is exchanged across state lines and authorities in both states aren’t involved. But that hasn’t stopped some parents from handling transfers this way.

Not long after the Puchallas arrived with Quita, the Easons presented a cake. “Welcome home Quita” was written in orange frosting.

Nicole also had a card for Melissa. Inside were printed these words: “I have faith that you’re going to come out of this experience with more wisdom and resilience than you ever thought possible.”

AUDIO Calvin Eason talks about raising, taking in children.Download the audio here

Melissa helped Quita unpack and hugged her goodbye. Everything would be fine, Melissa assured her. Melissa also devised a code: Quita would say “I love asparagus” over the phone if she felt in danger. (Quita didn’t use the code, Melissa says.)

As the Puchallas drove away, Melissa sobbed. She calls the decision “the hardest thing we’ve ever done in our lives.” Quita still can’t reconcile it. “How would you give me up when you brought me to be yours?” she asks.

In the days that followed, two puppies scampered through the trailer, gifts from the Easons to Quita. The dogs lifted the teenager’s spirits, but they weren’t housebroken and no one cleaned up after them. No one did the dishes, either, or the laundry.

More troubling, Quita says, was that the Easons took her into their bed: “They call me in there to sleep … to lay in the bed with them.” In bed, “Nicole used to be naked and stuff. It was not right to me.”

The sleeping arrangements Quita describes are consistent with the experience of another child the Easons took in. Nicole and Calvin both say that no child they took in ever slept in their bed.



Within days, the Easons had stopped answering Melissa Puchalla’s calls or returning her emails, Puchalla says. They attached a makeshift camper to the truck bed of their purple Chevy S-10, packed most of their belongings and left the state. Riding along was a friend of the Easons, a man on parole in Illinois for armed robbery.

When Melissa Puchalla called the school Quita was supposed to attend, she talked with an administrator who then contacted state child protection officials. Although Puchalla had signed over custody of Quita, she says she felt obligated to ensure Quita was safe.

Authorities, including police, subsequently went to the mobile home park in Westville. A neighbor told a child welfare official that before the Easons left, Quita had told the neighbor’s daughter that the Easons would be heading to upstate New York to visit Nicole’s mother.

LIBERIAN ORPHAN: In this picture, Quita went by the name Quita Davis and lived in a Liberian orphanage. Life in America, she says, “turned into a nightmare.” REUTERS/Handout

The puppies, left chained in the yard, were retrieved by animal protection officers.

As authorities searched for Quita, they discovered information that could have precluded the Easons from taking custody of the teenager, if the proper officials had been involved, adoption experts say.

Illinois authorities determined that the Easons had fabricated a document they provided to the Puchallas called a “home study.” It purported to be from a social worker who had visited their home and done background checks of the couple. Actually, Nicole had found a sample document on the Internet and filled it out herself. Some of the information was true; the rest was fiction.

“Quita Puchalla is missing as is the Eason family,” reads a confidential report by the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services. The internal report was dated Oct. 20, 2008, 16 days after the Puchallas had dropped Quita at the Easons.

“The Easons faked their home study,” the report says. “The Easons are suspected of using the disrupted adoptions of out of country children… Because there are other states involved, licensing issues and possible public aid fraud as well as a missing child, this matter may involve the FBI at some point.”


ONGOING STRUGGLE: Today, Quita Puchalla lives in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. She says she still cannot reconcile why the parents who adopted her from Liberia gave her away. “How would you give me up when you brought me to be yours?” she asks. REUTERS/Jeffrey Phelps

Illinois officials did share their findings with the local sheriff’s office and with the Federal Bureau of Investigation. Authorities then contacted the New York State Police, who located the Easons’ truck in Stephentown, New York. It was parked outside a house where Nicole’s mother lived.

When police went to the home on Oct. 21, they found Nicole, Calvin and Quita. The man convicted of armed robbery who had traveled with the Easons to New York wasn’t there.

“I have a 16 year old that came home from Haiti.… We need to find someone who would be willing to take her.… None of us want her back.”Participant writing on Yahoo group

Later that day, investigators separately interviewed the Easons and Quita. Reports show that the teenager said the Easons had pornography in their house. Police took Quita to a homeless shelter; the next day, she was put on a bus. She was heading back to Wisconsin, by herself, to the parents who had given her up not three weeks before.

Taking Quita from the Easons and returning her to the Puchallas was the extent of the response by authorities.

New York State Police concluded that the Easons had committed no crimes in their jurisdiction. Illinois authorities took no legal action, and neither did officials in Wisconsin. No one did anything to prevent the Easons from taking a child again.

Hundreds of other adoptive parents were seeking new homes for their unwanted children through Internet message boards like those that had featured Quita. Nicole Eason knew how the child exchange worked. She would tap it again after losing Quita, much as she had used it before.

One of the first times, Eason had gone by the screen name Big Momma. The custody transfer took place in a hotel parking lot just off the highway, and the man who went with her to get the 10-year-old boy would later be sentenced to federal prison. His crime: trading child pornography.


(Additional reporting by Ryan McNeill, Robin Respaut, Zachary Goelman and Elizabeth Dilts in New York)

Next, Part 2 – The Dangers: In the company of a pedophile

A look at the kids offered on a Yahoo group

By Ryan McNeillRobin Respaut and Megan Twohey

Created in September 2007, a Yahoo group called Adopting-from-Disruption was a place where struggling parents sought support from one another.

Some also used the group as a clearinghouse for unwanted children.

For an investigation into how parents use the Internet to offload adopted children, Reuters analyzed more than 5,000 messages posted on the forum over a five-year period, September 2007 to September 2012. During that time, the group was one of the most accessible Internet forums for adoptive parents seeking new homes for their children.

After Reuters shared its findings with Yahoo, the company acted quickly to shut down the group. Reuters identified more than 500 members who particpated at least once during the five-year time period. Just before it was closed, it had 184 members.

The information gleaned from posts on the group leaves some questions unanswered. Some advertisements for children contained limited information – for example, the age or sex of the child is missing. That means Reuters may have accounted for some children more than once.

Even so, the information in the posts provides a clear indication of the expanse of the Internet child exchange and many particulars about the children offered on it.

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    1. The same thing happened in my area. A young child has been missing
      for two years without anybody knowing it except the culprit. The parents
      stated she was sent to the grandparents eighty miles away and the
      grandparents stated she never came to their home. These children
      are very valuable to the pedophilia network until they get too old then
      they are discarded, usually permanently.

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